Love Yourself Before Loving The One

Accept life as it comes your way and don’t let anything keep you down. The more positive an outlook you have of yourself, the happier you will be. There are details that you should keep in mind especially during social gatherings. You must be aware of the facial and gestural expressions that you give. There are times when we unconsciously project a lot of negativity and this is because we are unaware of the type of expressions that are visible on the face and in our body language. This leads to terrible misunderstandings and heartache. What is important, thus, is to make sure that we constantly try and project our happiness out to everyone else. Obviously, this can’t be a fake happiness. In order to do so, one must truly be happy inside and this can lead to a happier and morepositive body language over all.

Love Yourself Before Loving The One

Love Yourself Before Loving The One

Loving yourself should be easy for us. But most of us are bogged down with insecurities and low self esteem. This becomes one of the main reasons why there is so much unhappiness in our lives. We forget ourselves and our self worth. The self improvement laws will help you get back on track and even with these laws it is important to also embrace and appreciate who you are as a person. You are an amazing person and you need to realize that. This will help you love yourself and also enhance the improvement process. No body can love you more than you can love yourself. Don’t depend on someone else to love you. There will be one if you keep expecting this. No one can love you the way you want them to if you cannot love yourself.

process of self assessment

process of self assessment

Everyone has their share of good and bad qualities. In the process of self assessment, we tend to focus more on the negatives than the positives. As a result, we judge and condemn all our actions and overlook all the good achieved in life. We forget ourselves in the process ad only dwell in a negative self image created by ourselves. This only leads to narcissism and depression. Relationships will never be successful if such a view is adopted. This needs to be changed. We are all blessed with a lot of good and it is time we counted our blessings and appreciate all that life has given us.

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  • ttocs November 20, 2012 at 6:16 pm

    I always hear the generic, you have to love yourself before others can love you.
    And also like, I have to be friends with myself.

    What I don’t understand is why is this important? And how should one do this?

  • Krazy Bob November 21, 2012 at 3:56 am

    I want to get “Adore Your self” tattooed in Hebrew on the back of my neck. I would seriously like to be positive that it really is right given that I haven’t read the language in years. I already googled the translation, but any one fluent in Hebrew would be super helpful to double check! right vowels and every little thing please, Though I do not believe there are any. Thanks so considerably!

  • Ev dog November 21, 2012 at 8:12 pm

    I asked a query earlier about te saying that you will need to adore your self ahead of you can really like an individual else. If we dont have to enjoy ourselves, what internal specifications do we have to have in order to enjoy a person else?

  • Oilers November 25, 2012 at 1:14 am

    I continually hear the generic, you have to enjoy your self just before other folks can appreciate you.
    And also like, I have to be associates with myself.

    What I don’t have an understanding of is why is this vital? And how should really 1 do this?

  • MAK & CHEESE November 27, 2012 at 10:27 pm

    apprently you have to learn to lover oneself ahead of you adore other people, how though?
    Acne ruins my self-confidence -.-

  • heavenly sword November 29, 2012 at 6:01 pm

    There are 2 basic traits of Asperger’s Syndrome. One is the inability to perceive social cues and understand how people feel, and the other is to have profound obsessions with (in many cases) unusual things.

    Well, can someone who has a disorder that makes reading body language difficult actually be obsessed with body language? Or is this a scientific impossibility?

  • kewlflame14 November 30, 2012 at 4:54 pm

    How can you define love? Is it all about hugging and kissing and holding hands, lots of sex. Or can it be defined as supporting an individual via the good and undesirable, getting at someones side for 20 years and by no means getting unfaithful. Is it about getting comfortable with someone and listening to them, sharing all life’s hurdles. I know in the beginning it is the hugging and kissing but as the partnership develops certainly enjoy is lasting and is about becoming collectively. I never know perhaps I have gotten it all incorrect.

  • Rkmc December 3, 2012 at 12:32 am

    1st of all, I do not speak about myself, thankfully. [:
    Like, when you’re the 1, everyone else pushes down.
    And all you get from them is hate, pain or ignorance.
    How can you nonetheless really like your self?
    I mean, seriously, the “psychologists” on television normally say you need to like your self just before anybody else can.
    But to me it does not sound probable at all.

  • Sergeant Pickle December 5, 2012 at 4:48 pm

    If life was about adore, it would have came with partnership directions. Inprove your self very first. Strengthen your self self-confidence. You have to discover to really like yourself ahead of you can like someone else.

    I came up with a lil answer to why ppl cheat and act funny towards other folks.. What do you guys consider?

  • jdfan December 5, 2012 at 9:52 pm

    What does that imply, and how do you appreciate yourself?

  • joevsyou December 5, 2012 at 11:48 pm

    My ex are on a break and well, he says prior to I can genuinely adore him, I have to like myself.

    I have a lot of self self-confidence problems, and I want to get previous them. I just require to know the initially step.
    I want him and I to work out, and he has a really valid point. I know it won’t take place overnight but I want to take every single step potential towards our partnership and creating it more effective.

  • Stevalicious December 9, 2012 at 9:52 am


  • Armas December 9, 2012 at 9:52 am

    So I’m confused.
    You have to adore oneself before you can love other folks and care for other people.


    True love is about producing sacrifices and putting your companion 1st before oneself.

    So which is it? Adore yourself very first or really like your partner very first? What do you guys assume? Am I misunderstanding some thing? Just curious.

  • SKATEskum December 10, 2012 at 2:47 am

    I came across a song about how you require to adore your self ahead of other individuals can really like you. I don’t know who it’s by. It may possibly be Sleeping With Sirens or The Used or Asking Alexandria…I am not certain, but it goes along with that genre of music.

  • Duke December 11, 2012 at 6:06 am

    I feel I enjoy people, I might have issues with myself, but I feel for the most portion I am in a position to love yet another. Why do people today say you can not really like someone else unless you love your self?

  • Courtney December 21, 2012 at 10:30 am

    Do you have to adore yourself just before you can love other individuals?