Being with that special person you wish to start a relationship with can be a great starting point for something more serious and long term. Although courting others may be a lot of fun, it can also be the cause of a ton of hurt and frustration for some people. When one takes into account all of the things that could possibly go wrong, it’s pretty easy to figure out why even the thought of dating can cause people so much worry and stress (especially if they are very new or inexperienced to dating other people).
Coming up with the perfect plans for a date can be bad enough, considering the amount of work that will have to go into making things work. From creating plans of where you will go and what you will do, getting yourself together so that you can be presentable for the other person, making a great impression on your date, etc. – the details can be limitless. Bad dating experiences have been known to put people in depression, as well as contribute to bad feelings and emotions (anger and sadness being a few of them). Sometimes those bad experiences can also even effect future potential relationships if a person still happens to harbor ill feelings, which many know can take quite some time to heal depending on the extent of the damage.
Even so, there are a ton of reasons why one should not let anything, no matter how painful it was at the time, get them down whether they feel it’s impossible or not. Many people have found that getting out there and getting their feet wet can be the change of a lifetime. Though dating can cause people a lot of worry and hassle, many have found that these painful situations can in fact be silver linings in the clouds. Not thinking about the bad things that can go wrong may be key for one to find the love of their life. Staying positive and knowing that there is really nothing out there that can hold you down from your life’s purpose is what it’s all about.